Year of: REVELATION

Dear Queen,

HAPPY NEW YEAR!! Another year has gone and passed and another chapter has begun. However, I am embracing this chapter with my arms open wide. Let me tell you, when you put out there to God that you are wanting to do something that is going to push you to the limit, he is going to answer you. I claimed 2018 as being my year of being uncomfortable…

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Removing the mask

Dear Queen,

Have you ever felt like you are hiding who you truly are to please certain people around you? As I continue on this journey of being uncomfortable and speaking my truth I wouldn't be authentic if I didn't tell you a little bit of my struggles. For the first time in my life on November 7th, I admitted that I struggle with mild depressive episodes. Why was that so hard for me to say out loud to not only myself but also to the people I love though?

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Having a wife mentor

Dear Queen,

You know, I never really understood the magnitude of what it meant to become a wife at first. To be completely honest, I used to be one of those women who would say, “what is the big deal that a man wouldn’t want to commit if we have been together already for x amount of years.” Girl, was I wrong ! Just like it takes a village to raise a child, it certainly takes a village to help you keep your marriage grounded. Certain people you should keep around are:

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Creating Myself

Dear Queen, 

Have you ever heard the quote, "Life isn't about finding yourself, it's about creating yourself" - by Bernard Shaw?  I posted this quote on my Instagram the other day because when I saw this quote it spoke to me and summed up my hiatus from social media. I know you maybe wondering why did I just drop and leave social media for two months.

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When the wedding belles have silenced...

Dear Queen,  
It has been 1 year that I have been married and it has been a pretty good year but also a hardworking year. Whoever said marriage is easy, wasn’t telling you the whole truth, lol.However, I still agree when one of my best friend’s told me not to believe in the 1year hype that you always hear about.Yes, the first year can be hard but it is what you and your husband make out of it! There are a few things that we had to work on during this first year of marriage and I am here to tell you about them in this letter…  

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She's Getting Married!

Dear Queen,

My best friend just got engaged !! When she face-timed me and I saw her hand casually come up with a ring on her finger, of course I screamed!! Lol We have talked about this moment for a little minute now and I am just so happy for her. Her and her fiancé are just beautiful and sync well. I admire three things about her and her fiancé and have never told her before and wanted to share my this as my Thursday Thoughts this week. Maybe this will give you your dose of black love magic! So here it goes...

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